Unfortunately there are people who get satisfaction talking about other people. They may decide they are doing well in business/not doing well in business. They may decide the wife / husband looks good or does not look good. I use to happily share with friends but learnt the hard way that it is unhealthy. If e.g I am having difficulty with finances I don’t want anyone to know especially if they can’t help me. I know one of my friends who went through a difficult money parsha said she regretted telling anyone because anything she bought was scrutinized and discussed if she really needed it.
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