Bgebentched, I think that even though it is a boy’s market, whomever the person is with this “issue” (boy or girl) is not forced to be matched with someone with their own “issue”. They dont have to be placed in the “problem” category as some might automatically place them. They just have to be aware that the future spouse might not meet all their criteria (looks,age, background, yichus ect). They need someone who will understand their issue, help them conquer it to the best of their ability and work towards making the marriage successful and happy. They dont need the “top bochur” “top seminary girl” (what does that mean anyways?) to be able to have a happy marriage.
Anxiety is pretty widespread, so yasher koach for getting the help you need. I hope other people follow in your steps to be able to have a healthier life. If the one with the anxiety problem has it quite seriously, I would advise them to wait for them to get a better grasp of their problem before seeking marriage. On the other hand, if it is a minor anxiety that strikes only during finals/midterm time but does not affect their day to day life, then they might be better keeping a more open mind about their future spouse. Maybe, as ‘bless you’ said, an older person who has the maturity needed.