Joseph: From the gemorah I brought, as well as the halacha.
I’m not arguing that embarassing someone is not terrible, of course it is, but LaKol Z’man V’eis. I would not have believed it if I didn’t see the halacha myself.
Besides, we are getting off the point. Have you asked the Rav what you are Mechuyav to give up to pay tuition? I asked you to do so last week.