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havesomeseichel:
We agree (at least on #2 & #3, #1 is questionable) I think you read what I wrote the wrong way.
artchill:
1: I have not said anything regarding the Rav except to ask for his opinion. Its bad enough how people are misquoted.
2: What is the case of the “poor person”? I agree for those who can not raise their children (illness or death CV) then the community should support them, as they are Yesomim. Someone whose parents are known not to care for their children (not pay child support, perhaps someone who got no education & does not want to earn anything) also has a Din of a Yasom. Anyone else should get an education (their children are Yidden just like anyone else), but must sacrifice everything they are required to do AL PI Halacha before they can take the Tzedaka from others subsidizing them.
And take a step back. If everyone paid full tuition, there would be no need for “killer tuitions”. And I am not familiar with the exact case of the frum children going to public school, just that it is due to lack of funds. And truthfully at first glance, I would sooner help them than BYOBP, as they (the “more left” ones going to public school) are more likely to go off C”V than a BYOBP girl who goes to public school.