feivel, I’m talking about say a general question and you ask your rav and he answers in a way which makes zero sense to you. You are a learned man and you know that something doesn’t add up. Why is it disrespectful to ask a follow up question and get to the bottom of it?
in the situation that you describe, it is NOT disrespectful and i certainly WOULD ask a follow up question, as you suggest.
this is NOT the situation that myself or anyone else thought you were referring to. Apparently we misunderstood you.