NYMom:
A) Don’t tell me to chill out. I’m cooler than an ice cream bar.
B) Yes, clothes make the man. We absolutely do portray who we are with our clothing. That still does not mean that that is all that we are. A woman who is wearing something more revealing than what you are comfortable with is still a “bat melech”. She may shine in other areas than tzniut. Tzniut is not the only thing that makes a Jewish woman special. We have other special mitzvot. (Challah, Shabbat candles and taharat hamishpachah, to name a few.)
C) I’ll read and comment on whatever thread I want to.
D) I wrote choking with two vowels, not one.