I can proudly say that I WAS a working mom. I stopped before my third child was born.one thing ican say: each day I worked was a HUGE mistake.
Mothers belong home. We have to take care of OURSELVES, never mind the house and kids.
We have to keep healthy and be normal pple.
My kids now have a mother-no I didn’t change overnight. No, I’m not perfectly calm all the time, but at least I don’t feel like an overwhelmed shmata every day.
Money isn’t our problem. Were also tight. But we gotta learn to live on one income.
Oh, and btw, if ur hub is learning, he belongs at work. I’m not against kollel, and my hub also learned until he was able to, but once its on the expense of the kids….
We gotta have our priorities set very straight…
I have so much to say on this topic. Can’t write so much. I can lecture about it for hours on end….
Good luck