Reply To: Shidduchin as a Business

Bemused:

Thank you for your bracha. I am not looking for advice on how to date. I am looking for when did getting married, or shadchanas, turn into a business instead of a mitzvah.

Why do “professional” shadchanim THINK and EXPECT that they should get paid????

Do I get paid for davening every day? Saying a bracha before and after I eat something? If so, please tell me to whom do I go to, so I can collect? I won’t have to work anymore and I’ll retire.