Reply To: Shidduch Info- “check ’em out!”

I dont think things from elementry school are important but in some shidduchim there are red flags even then. I unfortuantly know of someone that if he/she found out what he/she knows now a lot of tzaros could have been prevented. I dont think people should specifically ask about girls or boys when they were younger but if they can get the information why not? Again I’m not saying to take it so seriously because yes most people do change but if you hear something alarming, dont ignore it just because it was ‘a few years ago’.