re jeans: its a sensitivity in the “gray” area, meaning you can be a wonderful person if you wear jeans and you can be a…not so wondeful person and have never touched a pair of jeans in your life. jeans are not indicative of who you are as a person. its unbeleivable to me that we as frum jews have come to the point where it’s worth bickering with anonymous people about something like clothing that probably wont change the world anyway.
SJS good question wish I had an answer for you