NY Mom: I’d like to precede by saying, that although I may have come across feeling otherwise, I definitely agree with you that there are problems with the tznius standards these days. We have dulled our senses.
One of the hardest parts for me by far, is shopping for hours and coming home with… a pair of socks. The reason being, that nothing else I liked was ‘tznius enough’. It makes me so upset. So yes, maybe I know Hashem is proud, but it doesn’t help me feel any better. And then the things you do buy, that you feel is tznius enough, isn’t “kosher” for others and they let you know that in rather not-so-nice terms…