I run a large shdduch group. We try to be helpful and understanding as to the wants of parents/ and perspective shidduchim.
However in the last few months the reuirements have become such that makes suggesting shidduchim difficult.
The typical list I get from parents runs like this:
1. Money – at least half an apartment
2. Five years “kest”
3. Girl can be up to size 6
4. Girl must have good job
5. Boy must be at least 5.8 inches
6. Boy should write a sefer etc
What hapened to MIDDOS?? My Fatherz2l told me to look for partners for my children that will keep them happy.
While parents are being unrealistic there will be a crisis.