Jothar, if someone needs services to get by, I absolutely support them using the services. I don’t believe that anyone should place themselves in a situation that requires them going on services. The difference with getting grants for your education has to do with America wanting to invest in its citizens – the purpose is to educate people, hope they will do better economically and socially which will in turn help the country.
There is no age when sitting and learning in Kollel is inappropriate. People should wait until they can afford it (or have someone who can sponsor them) rather than leeching off the American people. It is in no way “free” money.
I love how people always bring up other Americans who are using the system and say “We’re better than that.” I don’t care who is taking services that they don’t need (just want), that is wrong. Here we are discussing Kollel families. I think the others are wrong too.
The economy is affecting my family and friends like most people. I absolutely have a lot of sympathy for people who are struggling. I don’t have sympathy for people who choose to “struggle” for Kollel but are really just taking money from the government.