haifagirl: Now that you apologized, I can answer your question. 🙂
The Problem with Eating Stuffed Cabbage with Chopsticks.
When grabbing the stuffed cabbage with your chop sticks,
if you grab it from either end, the heavy meat filling weighs down upon the
folded cabbage causing it to open plopping the delicious stuffing out on to
your plate, table, lap, or friends lap, depending on your schlemiel, or schlemazel status. If you grag it in the middle, it causes it cases the stuffing to fall out from both sides, leaving you more room to breath, as the person’s sitting on your immediate right and left go to the restroom to wash off the stuffed cabbage off their pants or skirts. Hence the dilemma of eating stuffed cabbage with chop sticks.