MayanDavash- If you are looking into the next shidduch before finishing this one, aren’t you saying that you arent sure that this one can work? So why go on with it? End it so the girl can do the next one. How would you feel if you heard the girl has “a list”? and you were just one of the people she was looking into? Be real and sincere. Only look at one at a time, and tell the shadchan that “I am busy right now but I will let you know if this one doesnt work out”. I know people who were researching one guy, and then heard “he is seeing someone”. Wait- why should a shadchan be setting him up with another girl if he is in the middle of something? Shadchanim should make sure that each side is available BEFORE giving the next name.
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