BP Totty:
You are correct that boys don’t get everything on their wish list.
However
Since you used BMG as an example- Please note regarding the boys in BMG:
within 3 yrs of arriving they are almost all married.
After 5 yrs (aprox 27.5 yrs old) there are less than 2% left.
As for the girls that started dating at that same time as those boys……….