BP Torry- You said “But ultimatly, EVERY boy marries a girl. It just seems to take longer, but in the end, boy and girl get married at the same time.”
But what about the girls? In your statement, you said one thing that excludes the other. You said that every boy has a girl to marry, but that excludes the statement that every girl has a boy to marry. We are worried about the girls not finding boys, not the fact that the boys dont have someone to marry. That is what is meant by the shidduch crises. More boys than girls, boys marrying younger girls…. that all adds up to boys all finding someone to marry but many girls not finding someone. The oldest 50 boys leaving the island doesnt help. That makes more older girls without shidduchim.