Jphone, I think the emphasis for the girls has been, look for a learning boy, vs. look for a true ben Torah (which one can be even if not in full time learning) with whom you can build a bayis neeman. This has put tremendous pressure on the boys.
Jphone, I think the emphasis for the girls has been, look for a learning boy, vs. look for a true ben Torah (which one can be even if not in full time learning) with whom you can build a bayis neeman. This has put tremendous pressure on the boys.