I have said it before but will say it again . Remember for a shidduch: We are looking for partners for our children and not ourselves.
There have been a few divorces here this week. Families are all great families but the children are just not made for each other….
What is so bad if my mechutainista wears a hat on her shietel I dont! I have one mechatainsta who is divorced. People asked me how could I? B”H my daughter is very happy.
We need to consider our children.