Girls being fed doom and gloom statistics+ Shadchanim and families urging to settle+ Short dates+ Minimal communication during engagement+ Chosson parents vs. kallah parents financial squabbles= Chassan/kallah marrying without trusting each other.
Divorce was given in the Torah as an option. No one is required to live in misery. HOWEVER, we as an Am Kodesh should insist that organizations with FALSE agendas, FALSE statistics, and FALSE endorsements stop sewing desperation into the hearts of people. The solution of one “crisis” is often a far more serious crisis.