nothing you do is discretionary
please see Chovos HaLavovos, Msilus Yesharim, and Sharaii Tshuvah
Hmm. Nothing? So, if I have a choice between eating tuna fish or salmon for lunch, I should ask a shaila to determine which is the proper choice (since nothing is discretionary)? Should I ask a shaila before spending any cent over and above what is necessary for our basic support?
The Wolf