You wrote: Their clothing is designed to make an impression and they sit in the most provocative of ways. Their conversations range from the mundane to the profane.
With all due respect you seem to be writing from an emotional position of jealousy.
I bet that anyone not as frim as you is likely “provocative”,or “profane”.
I don’t see the average maideleh in Starkbucks any more “provocative”,or “profane” than any other bnois yisroel.