justin2:
Last I checked it is the shadchan who is providing the service to the signles NOT the other way around. I haven’t seen to many articles written by shadchanim describing the pain and suffering how they wait for weeks on end for someone to come to them.
I don’t know of to many singles who have the “misfortune” of being hounded day and night around the clock by shadchanim taking away all semblance of normal life from them. I DO know many shadchanim who are in that position.