Reply To: Pay the Attempted Shadchan?

From your Host Lo Yitzloch

I can’t believe what a can of worms I opened up.

For a date a boy spends:

Car rental: $45.-$85

Gas and tolls: $25.-$250.

Parking $35-$69

Drinks or food: $5-$150.

Clothing and cleaners: $7.-$50

Total $117-$604

And the Shadchan even if he/she gets $150 (after 3 dates) for 25 hours = $6 an hour

I would never want to Redd a Shidduch.