A600KiloBear:
Last I checked ppl don’t look to inflict pain on themselves. If there are shadchanim out there who consistently suggest totally unsuitable ideas,(what u refer to as Shidduch plumer)
A: They won’t have to many people listening to them,
B: They certainly won’t have people getting to three dates.
If I may ask for the sake of the seriousness of this topic please keep your insensitive comments to other more important threads that the cr is filled with.