Hello99: A overhall of the system is needed because it is BROKEN. speak to shadchanim, speak to singles, speak to parents.
Shadchanim are overwehlmed, abused stepped all over,
Sinlges (usually the girls) are desperate for attention to get dates
Parents of the singles (usually of the girls) are up night after night in total desperation because their kids haven’t gotten dated in a long time.
soungs like a system that needs a overhaul.
Compensation for dates even without getting engaged would result in (as posted above)
a) far more people willing to put in the time and effort to redd shidducim.
b) far more dates for slightly older girls.