Tzippi: it’s obvious that you haven’t. Althouh I’m not sure what qualifies as a pro shadchan. How about someone who spends hours a day but doesn’t ask for anything when they make a shidduch. whatever the get is fine by them.
Is that a pro or not.
The ovewhelming majority of busy shadchaim fit that catogory.
FYI: I’m not sure what you mean by nudniks. These peoples phones are ringing non stop from Different people calling. Its not the same mother calling 100x a day. Its 100 different mothers…..