Tzippi:
It’s very important for you to point out that you drive someone once in a while and you don’t have an opportunity to make 1500 on that chesed. Point well taken-(are you serious???)
For the record: the vast majority of people whose children date 4,5,6 times and then stops. The next morning they call up the shadchan (maybe say thank you) and ask so nu do you have anyone else for my us. Fowers or gift certificates maybe 1 out of 40, maybe!
Its time we woke up and put ourselves in the shadchans shoes!!
My parents probably did what most people did then, and I was young and dumb and didn’t know better. (truth is I didn’t date much). That doesn’t make it right and its high time this changed.
Does that answer your question…
tzippi: I appreciate your concern but don’t worry it’s not on my shoulders. As I posted earlier, Coming to a community near you..