Young men and women, basically kids, in the shidduch parsha don’t usually have shidduchim redt directly to them rather it is customary to redt the shidduch to the parents. Once a young woman or man have been dating for a long while and have aged up a bit into their early or mid 20’s, then it is appropriate to speak directly to them. Children who are not handling shidduchim on their own usually just give the shadchan their mothers’ number.
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