“For all those who are Makpid in every word, I will rephrase.”
As a shadchan, you better be makpid on every word.
The one and only shadchan (professional) I ever spoke with, apparently was not. When I told him I had a degree from Touro and the girl he wanted to set me up with specifically told him that she did NOT want to consider someone in college, he decided I was a perfect candidate, after all, since I already had my degree, I was no longer in college. He didnt care what she meant, only what she said. As a shadchan, thats a waste of everyones time. I was so annoyed at him, I threatened him with a din torah for reimbursement of every cent I spent on the date including all travel expenses (gas and tolls) and “entertainment” (ok drinks at a lounge) if he wouldn’t do so on his own.