itsallyourfault;
It is normal, and happens many times the second time around.
I know a guy that the third time around, both him and the same girl decided
to go for it. I even know of a case where ther girl said no, the guy was still
interested, asked the shadchan 8 girls later and turns out, after 5 boys later,
the girl realized she made a mistake but was embarrassed to ask the S to retry, till S called girl. They’re happily married now.
Do not e-mail, creepy and to forward. Don’t worry if yu get turned down,
at least you tried and she know where you stand.
(perhaps she has to go out with some more schlemiels, till she gets some sense.)