Ok Moish and asdf, I got another stumper for you, and this one’s been bothering me for years…
Mr. X has a bad day but he tells himself it just a kapara, which makes it easier to handle. Now he doesn’t have as much tza’ar so is that considered the kapara because it was only based on the amount of tza’ar it would give him…lets see Prof google answer this one…
BTW, could one of you chachamim out there in coffee land tell me how the word evitable is used in a sentence… I’m still not so sure I believe you that its a real word…