oomis1105
If shadchanim spent four hours on a girl and then went on to the next one – you can rest assured that girl wouldn’t get to far.
Try asking a shadchan how much time it takes to get a single date of the ground. 4 hours???? are you joking???
“But plenty of shadchanim redd shidduchim for the wrong reasons, JUST to try to make that fee.”
incorrect- The Overwhelming majority of shadchanim out there are NOT trying to make a quick buck. it’s not quick and it’s a very small buck compared with the time energy and aggravation that goes along with the territory.
oomis 1105: You say you’re retired. Why not try your hand at shadchnus in a serious way and let us know your findings