yep, she claimed to be a professional, and was recommended to my friend’s daughter, who happens to be an attractive young woman of 22. Even if you think a girl is being picky (and she was not, this clearly is very choshuv to her), why make a comment like that one? I was appalled, so was my friend, and she told the shadchan she no longer needed her services. The girl is seeing someone now who was redd to her by a relative whose son is friendly with the bochur, and maybe B”EH this will be the right one. But whether or not it works out, no one should be treated insensitively just because they do not want to conform to someone else’s preconditions. Or was the shadchan just worried about the money she was losing? She lost it anyway.
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