Oomis1105: Since when does a persons schooling decide whether or not they deserve to be reimbursed for their services. Perhaps it decides how MUCH not IF. I don’t advocate shadchanim charging $350 (lawyers fees) per hour that they spend on a individual person. But why are you sooo comfortable with expecting them to do it for free.
When and where one does chesed it their own personal choice, the community has NO right to expect individuals to expend such extensive effort on their behalf for free.
Bemused: Hard doesn’t mean impossible. Gotta start somewhere- the ywcr is nice place to start bringing this “breakthrough” concept to peoples consciousness