AZ – i did not say my Dad would give 20 bucks – I think he’s gonna be in a very expansive mood when i get engaged- and will give alot more than this 😉
This Shadchan is his close friend – and he knows how he works quite well.
Shadchan works for a certain yeshiva, so he knows all the boys and their families.
This is not his only parnassa, so money is not the only deciding factor when he thinks of redding shidduchim.
Obviously families with wealthier means give a larger shadchanus than those that cant.
but he doesn’t demand it…