My minhag is, wine b4 challah, fish b4 soup, cholent b4 bed, bed b4 1:00.
Guests when ok with the balabusta, friends every Shabbos night,
I have a chavrusah.
Socializing is ok, but the schmoozing tends to end up with loshon hora
better add bed b4 friends. especially shabbos which is so holy you don’t want to
spend it yenta-ing away. If you just have nice positive conversations, cheers!