Reply To: Mirroring, listening the right way???

chesedname-i almost died laughing…but wat does rofl mean??

thats not wat i meant, the mirroring was a 2nd qust. for ex.

#1:i had a really hard day today…everyone was down my back…

me:that sounds really tough…ur probably totally stressed…

her:ya…and i got screamed at by my teacher… my friends acting all wierd…

me:that’s so frustrating…i hate when my teachers yell at me…

her:ya…it so is!! and i dont know wats up w/friend…she’s ignoring me and i dont know wat 2 do…

me:so ur friends acting kinda mean and your a little lost

her:totally! i tried being super nice to her but shes not reacting….

me:sounds like youre being pretty good about it and not just being nasty back, thats really nice of you…

kay, so remember, this girl has a hard life and needs a lot of support and encouragement… i probably wouldn’t act this way to a friend with a high self esteem, shed be all-why are u acting so wierd? and is this even mirroring? or is it just the end that is…

also i need more help with the sick dad thing. i really dont want to act to pitying-she h8s that and gets all withdrawn. but i dont know what to answer to make her feel better.