YANKY55- my husband has a divorced friend that also has his 2 kids with him only some days. They join us for seudos and it is really beautiful.
I’m sure he’d rather be with his own fmaily but since this is the situation, he chose a friend where he’ll be comfortable and sticks one same home usually.
Maybe you too, should find one or two specific families where you’ll feel most comfortable and stick to them instead of running around.
This might make you feel like part of their family.
We love when our guest joins us and I’m sure he does too! He’s becoming more and more part of our family.
Hatzlacha rabbah and good yom tov.