Health- why do you say “Yom Tov should be with family.”? This is exactly what I mean… Just because it’s just not done…
I think that Yom Tov should be with happiness (so long as it isn’t against the halacha, in which case it can’t make you happy, and if staying home alone makes you happy- so be it.
It just requires a lot of guts to do what you know will be best for you, even if “it isn’t done.”
Wish I had some guts…