The article was good CC, but one size does not fit all. The person at the top of the maze is only good to give the rest of the folks direction, if his eyesight is good and he is seeing clearly. Not every rebbie is equipped to give good advice to every bochur (maybe the rebbie has his own tzoros in marriage), and just because one is a rebbetzin, that does not qualify her to give advice to a girl in the parsha any better than her own mother could (and her own mother at least knows her well).
On the other hand, my son’s Rebbie gave him the best advice I have heard in a while. He told him, “When it comes to dating, don’t force a relationship and don’t fight it.” That makes a great deal of seichel to me and more important, to my son.