AZ, Hello, Oomis:
How about the guys starting to go to college and get jobs (and date) right out of High school instead of learning for a few years or being told that work and college are not for proper yeshiva guys.
Guys can still learn part of the day (college does not take up the entire day, especially those geared towards the frum community). This will alleviate AZ’s problem, that the males are dating at age when they are much older than the girls.
It will also alleviate the problems that everyone else is thinking, that the boys are immature or do not have a plan in place once they get married (start dating). Usually working forces a person to mature and deal with people on a constant basis.