Youdontknowme:
No I don’t. I don’t believe you understand me, either. I don’t disagree with anything you write in your latest post. All I’m saying (or trying to anyway) is that there are legitimate reasons why people may go to college. All I was adding, is that if there is a serious effort to encourage the dating of “older girls” say 21+ then girls younger than 21 will have to find other ways to occupy their time since getting married and starting a family is not what we apparantly want them doing. I suspect that girls who otherwise may not have, may now go to college simply to fill their time, and if there will be a stigma against such girls, then nobody will date than at 21 anyway, so we are no better off than we are now. Probably worse off.