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Mox: I think our community is by now well aware of crisis facing our singles. I don’t see why it’s so relevant to verify the exact number of our annual population growth, and the exact number/percent of remaining girls. We would serve CR members much favor if we would discuss ‘solutions’ (without the context of the ‘crisis’)like by discussing the extra qualities of an older girl, and how it might be beneficial for some boys to marry little youger, instead of debating actual statistics, and hammering in the reality of the crisis every day. This over excessive ‘crisis talk’is only causing people to get depressed, and more anxious. Let’s try to keep peoples’ mood positive and optimistic, this way everyone will be encouraged to do their share in trying to help out in the current matzav, and not just give up in despair and panick to make their sure their own daughter is ‘saved’ from the crisis.