haifagirl, I’m sure she wasn’t saying that parents should decide who their children should marry. Part of the problem I have with what she wrote is the wording, you’re not “choosing” a spouse for your child you are merely suggesting a possible match for them to decide on, or at least that’s how it should be. The way she wrote it sounds like the children have no responsibility for their own actions. Also IMO suggesting that parents be more selective in who they let their children date is not a good idea.
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