APY- i really empathize with u since I get the same thing…
and I am a shadchan as well..
THE GOODS ARE NOT RETURNABLE-SO U DO HAVE TO CHOOSE WISELY!
if u dont think it’s ‘zigepast’ u have all the right
but being on the shadchans side I do find ppl assume the proposed shidduch is not apropriate, too quickly…
when s/o mentions a shidduch to me I tell them i will look into (even if I see it’s not appropriate) and get back to them..