estherh im so sorry you went through something like that amd im so sorry you had to hear a comment like that. Oomis i cant for the life of me understand what people are thinking when they make a comment like that. I lost a baby too. People who didnt think would say oh its such a zechut to have a child pass away with such a pure neshama my husband and I must be such special people if that happened to us. And people who had their head on straight would just tell us what they took apon themselves to do in her memory. Unfortunately not everyone thinks before they talk and give out advice but it really hurts when you read such a tragedy on a frum news site and see frum people writing such hurtful comments. Even if there is something constructive that you want to say think of how you would feel reading something like that if you were in their place G d forbid.
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