The amount of insensitive comments I got after being in an accident and being unable to walk for an indefinite amount of time ….
“Are you ever going to be able to walk again? “
” You must not be taking care of yourself properly.”
“I think you chose a bad dr. to do your surgery or it wouldn’t be taking so long. “
“You know you are ruining your shidduchim by going around in a wheelchair. Probably better to stay home or try and fake it while you go out. “
“Come on, I am a good friend of yours. Tell me the real diagnosis. “
“Hashem is giving you this nisayon to show you he loves you. Don’t complain. Be happy with the situation. “
etc….