This “problem” rears it head every summer. The problem is really limited to a few camps that employ boys and girls that are simply more modern than you average “yeshivish” family. Its just that for the 1st time in 10 months, we go shopping and see people from all circles in a few mile radius.
The other “loose cannon” is the mothers helper / bungalow colony counslor that has no one to answer to.
By and large, our bnei and bnos yeshiva are spending their summer behaving as they should. True, my son may wear a polo or baseball cap on an off grounds trip, and true he may say hello to someone he knows from a “different” circle. And while that may seem like “there is rampant pritzus in the gaas”, its far from fact.
2am in the walmart parking lot is a whole different story. Even I should’nt be there at that time of day (or night). But what goes on during “normal” hours is just that. Normal.
Calm down and stop bashing our teens!