The sad honest truth is that people develop most psychological disorders as a result of bad parenting. The same is true for kids who go “off the derech”.
You don’t need to molest your kids to be a bad parent. There are far more than enough ways to traumatize your kid in simple everyday interaction.
If only this, teach your kid that he is an individual and that his feelings and desires are natural and understandable.
If you can’t handle that, maybe try blaming it on household cleaners.